I agree with a lot of what has been said so far - I was brought up in the 'truth' and have to say that it spoiled a big part of my childhood. The humiliation of always being the 'different' kid, having to lie about birthdays and xmas amongst other things. The embarrassment of being seen going to the KH or on field service caused me problems with some people at school. I also resented having to attend boring meetings which took up so much time during the week - especially on Summer nights when I would rather have been somewhere else.
Luckily I had a lot of worldly friends and relatives so I always kept a foot in both camps. What angers me still is the fact that I had no real choice in the matter - I would rather have had made choices as an informed adult. I only went to keep my mum happy and also because of the armageddon fears that came from the platform every week.
Even now, 17 years on since I sat in the KH for the last time, it upsets me to think about it. The pain is still there, buried in my psyche for evermore. I have often asked myself how anyone could put a child through that - I have asked my mum this, and her reply is that as far as she is concerned it was for my own good, an Armageddon protection shield. I don't blame her - she has been duped like so many others. I am also glad she didn't make a big deal of it when I went my own way, that made things so much easier.
I don't have kids, but if I do I will make sure they don't suffer in this way - it does leave it's mark that's for sure.